Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Why people can’t get along?

This question pop out my mind when I chatting with my foreigner friends who have been very good friend of mine. We can chat all day long with any topics, we share our sweats and tears and we counsel each other with all experience we had gone through. No conflict can make us apart, we becoming stronger person every time we shared our problem and listen to those who experienced it before. Even though I didn’t see any of their photos at the beginning but now, I can imagine how pretty is that person to be able to stand up for people and not just for them. Even at this moment after spent 7 months together, she can read my mind by guessing it correct. For example, I said I so happy today… and she guesses the reason correctly and almost everything she can guess it right. From there I learnt that we are contacting from heart to heart from soul to another soul.

The problems with the people in this era are incurable. They come by lust and selfishness in them. What they see is not the problem but what conclusion they made in their mind is the biggest problem. For example, someone perform a very good talent in their videos and there’s ignorant brags curse the person for having no life or posting unmotivated comment after seeing their appearance.

People who uploaded their talent in YouTube were not just for show off but to improve themselves from the comments of viewers. From there, they can get better and success in their career while enjoying in what they doing.

We human are very screwed up; first impression is the most important thing in life. Let me give you the situation that will prove what I trying to say here. First situation, If you see the ugliest person (in your point of view) in front of you, will upfront yourself talking to him/her like how you talk with other people beside him? . Second situation, you are very depress after your activities or works and you want to find someone to chat and you happen to have a very good buddy who always happen to advise you and give you motivation in life and both of you spent good time together. By the time you see his/her in person, you found his/her appearance kinda disappointed you, and will you continue to friend with that person? Will you easily throw away your bond just for your lust? Will you let your selfishness overpower your heart and mind?

Please wake up, this world is not about you but about people around you, without people around you, how you be able to be recognized, and gain fame?

By the time you find someone appearance are bothering you, you lose your dignity and gain something called “eye sore”. That reason you get that kind of thoughts because of your mind “first impression” and the rest are undefined until you make your approach.

I believe we are just a soul in our body, by the time we make friend with another people; we are actually contact with another soul. Imagine you are in the dark room, where you can’t see anyone but able to hear voices, and from there you converse so confidently without knowing how they look like. By the time you knowing their appearance disgrace or depress you, you put a borderline in your converse because you don’t want a further relationship with that particular person.

What conclusion can you make after reading what I wrote above?

It’s all about mind control. We had been brainwashed by lots of people and media we seeing every day such as Television, newspapers and Internet. So for now, let our heart do the talking. Let’s stand by our own feet and live for a better future by treating everyone the same as others.

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