Saturday, October 03, 2009

What does friend means to you?

What does friend means to you?

To me, friend is like another person who has their own goal and way of life in themselves. They are not tools that we used for our own desires. We don’t have to believe in them as we depend on someone. Why? Because they are human, and human have their own emotion and perspective in life and you can’t denied that unless you can’t understand yourself.

You can’t change them even if you dislike their behaviour and attitude but to accept it. But what if they did something that get into your nerves? You scold them, and then break the friendship that you build up all the while? Maybe they really get into your nerve most of the time and you wish they never exist at the first place. Or we can maintain our friendship by looking at their positive side rather than their negative side. I always know human are so easy to be manipulate, most of the time when they get moody, they only remember what your weakness and blame you for what you not good at instead of what you capable to do. What does friendship means to you? Does that even cross your mind? What if the person you going to break up is the person who care about you the most and your thoughts keep killing your bond because of what you see in their weakness and not what they can do when you need them?

Don’t even tell me you can live without a friend, without a friend, you lose everything, you will never know what you are, you will never recall your own name, you will never know what you capable of, you will never know you are exist in this world. It may sound ridiculous, but it’s true.

What a shame human race we living in, most of the time people tend to find a good looking person or talent people to friend with. What are these people? Egoistic ? How can you make such conclusion? Do you know how long does it take to know someone and they start to share their REAL feeling and problem to you? For me, it took me at least a year. Be aware of that, most people are faking their inner self and express themselves in another way to tell you different story.

When do you label a person as your friend? You don’t abuse the word itself, if you did, you will have hard time to differentiate your trustiness.

You don’t tell your friends what they must do and don’t. But you tell them what are right and wrong to you. If you told them do and don’t, you already make an indirect insult to their stance.

If you can’t maintain the bonds, how can you even get a business partner? What worst, a spouse!

A real friend, they don’t come to you, and you only to voice out, here they are. If they don’t, you yourself aren’t good enough to call them your friend.


me is mad said...


i was just pondering this question in the morning actually. so happened i found your blog after watching 'One Future' 15th Malaysia and saw your comment and found your blog. random enough right!

just so you know, i felt much calm after reading your post. lols. good day :)

tagskie said...

hi.. just dropping by here... have a nice day!